There is an old saying: "It's better to wear moccasins than to try to carpet the world."

In other words, take care of yourself and your own life before you try to change the world.

When my friends are unhappy, I want to fly in like superman and "fix" things and make them happy.

Sadly, in my efforts to "help," I sometimes made things worse by interfering. I didn't realize this until a friend of mine decided I would be much better off living close to her. She contacted realtors, moving companies and even a home owner to "help" me move to a better place near her. She refused to listen to me wh...