Forgiveness: When You Can't Forget
Last updated 11/22/2021 at 10:41am
I've been thinking a lot about forgiveness lately. The kind of forgiveness that feels like, if I extend it, and choose to consider actually forgiving, that I am the one who is losing. You know the kind of forgiveness I'm talking about, right? The kind where you've been hurt so deeply, on such a core level, that you can't possibly consider forgiving the other person? The kind that causes a physical ache in your heart and is accompanied by anger when the ache subsides. The kind where every decision seems to be filtered through the lens of the pain. Yes, that kind.
I don't know about you, b...